Research conducted to discover what makes a relationship work, noted that people who maintain a healthy and satisfying relationship, conducted psychological tasks that we list below:
1. are separated emotionally from their families of origin; not to the point of becoming strangers, but enough so that its identity is separate from that of his parents and brothers.
2 build an emotional closeness based on shared identity and privacy, while at the same time establish the limits necessary to maintain their autonomy and independence. I.e., they share a unique identity of partner and maintain their respective individual identities at the same time.
3 establish a rich and enjoyable sexual relationship and protect it against the intrusions of the work and family obligations.
4. couples with children is open to accepting the role of parents and absorb the impact of the arrival of a new be family, but learn to protect the privacy of each of them and the couple.
5 they face and dominate the inevitable crises of life and the couple, no escape from them or deny them. 6 maintain the strength of the link between them in the face of adversity. The couple or marriage has to be a safe place in which both members of the couple can express their differences, anger or conflict.
7 they use humor and laughter to keep things in perspective and to avoid boredom and isolation.
8. take care, support each other, meet the needs of your partner of intimacy, support and comfort and provide a stimulus and ongoing support, helping your partner to grow and develop their abilities.
9 kept alive the romantic and idealized love, images while at the same time they face the more sober realities of the changes wrought by time.
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